Posted by Scott on
November 16, 2009
Is there a bigger racket in all of sports than the end-of-the-season soccer party? Don’t get me wrong, I love my soccer team and all of the great parents we are fortunate enough to share the experience with, but how much is too much? Do we really need a huge cake, trophies, and pizza? Of course, the kids are going to shout YES, and I tend to agree with them! My case is rare, because I consider all the parents of my girls my friends, so going out for pizza and beer is not exactly something I need to weigh my options first! But what about the parents of other teams that don’t really get to know each other during the season? Can standard tradition of the uncomfortable soccer party be broken and maybe have a “No-Kids Get-Together” down at the local coffee shop or watering hole? A good social night out is just what a lot of these parents need…BEFORE the season! After all, the same team is probably going to be together for several years, so why not break loose and get to know each other now and enjoy the ride like we are? I’ve looked across the field way too many times this season, only to see the parents from the opposing team all segregated as if each couple had a contagious disease the others wanted no part of. How fun is that? Where is the camaraderie? The excitement? The thrill of sharing your daughter’s first goal with someone else? I feel sorry for the girls on my team in a humorous way. When I look down our own sideline, all the parents are huddled up, laughing, and discussing where to go afterwards…all the while, watching their daughters with one eye at best! Who says the parents can’t have fun?!? I made a DVD slideshow with great pictures covering the season and gave it to each of the parents at our soccer party. The main reason? So the parents could see what they missed while chatting at the game! I didn’t know what to expect when venturing into coaching this year, but I must say, I am probably the luckiest dad in the league to be blessed with such a great group of kids and parents. It’s too bad that not everyone else can say the same.